Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Hi dear UI5s
This is where you can post your writing:
which one is more important; work or family?
Everyone else is welcomed to leave their comment.
cheers
Mahsa

19 comments:

Unknown said...

It 's clear , family is important .
family is first structure that human born there and train there. We have a lot of relationship with our family . our present and future life is depend on family's comfort. We shouldn't devote our family to the work . and we mustn't ignore that when person undertake a responsibility , he should do that as well as he can . we must appropriate our family to leisure time. when we work we must finish house work in one hand to have no problem with our family on the other hand to have no problem with our work.
In our society being employee for woman is very important and working out of house dosen't get annoyed the woman but it was cost to their social personality.when woman work she help to family's economy and it cause to family's rest.
In every aspect we mustn't go on one side, work is important too.we must worth to both.
Nasim

Parisa-KM said...

Although family is more important than work, it can’t continue its life without having money. In this world money says first. There are many competitions in economical world and who is more clever can earn more whether the way he uses is legal or illegal! In most cases people forget why they are working?! What are the benefits of the good working? Why they spend most of their time for working instead of being with their family?
Because human needs social life, he can’t live alone. From the pre-historic years till now it was like this. People need to love someone else and does his best to satisfy them. Family is tiny society that he can be happy with the members. In order to prepare life facilities family need money. In most times with enough money these needs are satisfied. But people are greed potentially. “The more he earns the more he wants” . In this manner he works more and more and forgets everything about the means of life!
To have a conclusion if people equilibrate their life in the case of family and work , they will enjoy life.

Homa said...

We have heard something like this before, (science is better or wealthy?)(First the hen existed or egg?) Or (which one do you like more, father or mother?)And…….!
I haven't seen someone who answer these question directory, some times we can not prior something to other easily. We have witnessed some mothers who gave up their job after their child's birth, by the time the children have grown up and no need more motherly caring, and want to be in depended, poor mothers stay with out any entertainment for themselves that become little by little discourage in life.
You may ask why our mothers didn't get depress in the past times, it's necessary to be mentioned that our women's expectation in the past and nowadays is different.
When person's job scarified their family in general it depends on society and economic problems which in one hand people have to work hours to support their family. And in the other hand when there aren't suitable governmental centers for keeping children during mothers' absent women have to stay at home to take care of their babies.so both of them cause some problem.
Sorry my writing went long, I have to finish it, at the end for performing fairness and moderation between work and family we need those in our society.
We have lost them since many years ago!
cheers

fatima said...

hi dears,
Most of time we forget about life and the purpose of life.Life only is not getting money or getting whatever you want,life is enjoying your time and work is part of life,I mean a tool for better life!However somtimes we destroy our life in the case and meaning of life!So it's better we determine them in a way which we be aware about them all the time.We should be alarmed about life,time is pasiing very fast,very fast!We are lucky if the day which we would aware about wasting and not enjoying life never happen!
with the best wishes,
*****kisses*****

Anonymous said...

This Q is something like the Q of knowlege or money?,that u cannot say one is absolutely important.I think one is needed to have the other or the existance of one makes the other one,and this is the same.But if worse comes to worst I will choose family,I guess.
love

Anonymous said...

hi,im masoome.if u recieve my comment i will leave next time.bye good luck

Anonymous said...

HI dear teacher
i think family is more important because my grandmother always said"if we die tomorrow the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. but the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives" so come to think of it.we pour ourselves more into work than to our family. is not this an unwise investment indeed?
thanks alot
roghayeh

mahsa said...

Hi Masoumeh
great to see you successful in leaving a comment, waiting for your next comment dear!

mahsa said...

And Maryam!
why don't you creat a blog of your own! just like Sarah did, We (my students and I) would love to read your entries!?
cheers

Anonymous said...

Hello
First of all Ishoud interdouce myselfI am AYLIN NIKSHAD your old student if you know me please leave sth on your blog for me

mahsa said...

Hi Aylin great to see you here again. I am waiting to read more comments from you...
cheers
Mahsa

Anonymous said...

IN THE NAME OF ALLAH
Hello teacher
I woundered you know me I am so glade about this.
Last night I was on lined and I don"t know why I mesd you a lot soudenly I felt I need speak whit you.I want to be in a class whit you again.THIS IS MY HOPPE.

Anonymous said...

hello Dear Mrs Mashoufi
I sometimes think about creating a blog,this is what I really like.But the subjet and topics are important for me and i have no idea about the kind of blog yet.and thanks alot for your kind suggestion.I`ve just started thinking about it.
love

Pary said...

Hi Dear Mahsa
I just wanted to say Happy belated Yalda night . sorry for my delay
Have a warm life in cold winter . see you and by

Anonymous said...

hello teacher
i am elnaz b .iwant to write sth which i do not want others read it even my sister.is it possible?please only write yes or not. to night i will check it again. i am wait for your answer
thanks u a lot.

Anonymous said...

hi teacher
did u read my comment?
e.b

Pary said...

Hi there
Happy new year 2009 !
I 'm happy that finally the problem of Blogspot has ended and we can chit chat again , although I tried very hard for finding another suitable Blog and finally i fond and i created another additional Blog and you can be in touch with me in the problem times( there is a link for it in my Blog ) . Any way i wish you all a happy and fruitfull 2009 .
be careful and be in touch
cheers

Anonymous said...

Hi,teacher
First of all I want to answer you,then start my long way of writing;I prefer family more whereas work is important too.
Every one has spesial way of living.Ofcourse something like eating and sleeping is necessary in life,but other things like studing,hobbies,learning different things,marriage,following some special methods,reading books,having innovation in your life and etc can be other ways of living.
Sometimes you can enjoy your life but other times maybe you do not have anything to do with it.
In some socialists theory,life can have different parts;maybe just two of them are work and familly. Needless to say,we need work for earning money,taking part in society and some other aims.
Maybe it is a bad feeling that something force you to tolerate everything around you without any interest.It is realy bad that sometimes you have to work hard and tolerate everything,even persons you don’t like them at all;just for the aim of keeping your job and salary!
On the other hand,it can be the best feeling that you are getting along with the situation just because you enjoy everything and feel responsible of persons you love them.there is not any profit or salary here,but you have sweet life.
In my opinion,family is a base for life.Because you make the most difficult decision for having family.you precisely make a merit of someone as a person who you expect him/her to be the other part of you,you want to trust him/her and spend time with.
It seems that each time you try to play a new trick to keep your life (sometimes you ingretiate with your husband/wife,maybe you want sweeter life with him/her with this act.some other times you do not care about anything,maybe you want every bad situation to be ignored in your life and sometimes your partner become a thorne for you_you love him/her and try to accept all good and bad parts of him/her_maybe you don’t dare to have bad experience in your life and etc).
It can happened to you having fights or even finishing relationship with someone in your workplace.Maybe despite that,you are continuing your job.but if the same thing happens with your family members,something will change.unfortunately,that thing can be a basic root of your life and destroy every thing.
It is acceptable that work is important but family can be more important.in addition,it would be a best suggestion that"keep your family more strong,more safe and more happy".because you emothionally need your family.Working sometimes is just a choise to have better life with your family.
Best wishes to my best teacher:leila

Pary said...

Hi Dear Mahsa
What are you doing ? Hope to see your new entries . being quiet is so disappionted . So don't give up . You did a great job and it 's nice to keep going .Until your next entry bye bye